Throughout history men have tried to develop ways to pick up women.
Now with the advent of psychology, and techniques like NLP or street hypnosis, Pick Up Artists (PUA’s) have broken down their methods to a specific set of rules that anybody could apply.
I will let you decide if it’s a crude distortion of a sensual, spiritual sexual experience, or a skillful use of human neuro-psychology.
The following is a breakdown by Seduction Master Neil Strauss of the methods used by Erik von Markovic aka Mystery and is found in his book The Game.
Strauss attended the Mystery Method workshop in Los Angeles and broke the method down the approach to thirteen detailed steps.
Sometimes PUA’s use illusions and mind tricks to get attention. These can be guess a number between 1 and 10 (90% of the time people pick seven), or using invisible thread to create the illusion of levitation.
After all, a magic trick is far more attention grabbing than saying you’re an accountant.
13 Steps to Seduction
1. Smile when you walk into a room. See the group with the target and follow
the three-second rule. Do not hesitate—approach instantly.
2. Recite a memorized opener, if not two or three in a row.
3. The opener should open the group, not just the target. When talking, ignore
the target for the most part. If there are men in the group, focus your attention
on the men.
4. Neg the target with one of the slew of negs we’ve come up with. Tell her,
“It’s so cute. Your nose wiggles when you laugh.” Then get her friends to notice
and laugh about it.
A neg is a kind of backhanded comment that you quickly recover from. For example, an attractive girl expects to be told she is beautiful not ignored. A neg allows you to do the opposite and place her off balance.
Neg’s could include:
”Is that a wig? Oh … well it looks nice anyway”
“I think your hair would look better (up or down)”
“What do you call that hair style? The waffle?” (smile)
“Ooo – you spit on me”
“You blink a lot”
“Nice nails. Are they real? Oh .. Well they look nice anyway.”
“I like that skirt,. These really are popular these days.”
“You kinda have mans hands”
“You have beautiful eyes can I touch them?”
“You have yes crustices? No. don’t rub them .. I like eye crusties.”
5. Convey personality to the entire group. Do this by using stories, magic, anecdotes, and humor. Pay particular attention to the men and the less attractive women.
During this time, the target will notice that you are the center of attention. You may perform various memorized pieces like the photo routine, but only for the obstacles.
[The photo routine involves carrying an envelope of photos in a jacket pocket, as if they've just
been developed. Each photo, however, is pre-selected to convey a different aspect of the PUA's
personality, such as images of the PUA with beautiful women, with children, with pets, with
celebrities, goofing off with friends, and doing something active like roller-blading or skydiving.
The PUA should also have a short, witty story to accompany each photo.]
6. Neg the target again if appropriate. If she wants to look at the pictures, for example, say, “Oh my god, she’s so grabby. How do you roll with her?”
7. Ask the group, “So, how does everyone know each other?” If the target is with one of the guys, find out how long they’ve been together. If it’s a serious relationship, eject politely by saying, “Pleasure meeting you.
The line “So, how does everyone know each other?”is also useful when a girl tries to ignore you and turn there back on you and talk to a gruo of girls].
8. If she is not spoken for, say to the group, “I’ve sort of been alienating your friend. Is it all right if I speak to her for a couple of minutes?” They always say, “Uh, sure. If it’s okay with her.”
If you’ve executed the preceding steps correctly, she will agree.
9. Isolate her from the group by telling her you want to show her something cool. Take her to sit with you nearby. As you lead her through the crowd, do a kino test by holding her hand. If she squeezes back, it’s on. Start looking for other lOls.
10. Sit with her and perform a rune reading, an ESP test, or any other demonstration that will fascinate and intrigue her.
11. Tell her, “Beauty is common but what’s rare is a great energy and outlook on life. Tell me, what do you have inside that would make me want to know you as more than a mere face in the crowd?” If she begins to list qualities, this is a positive IOI.
12. Stop talking. Does she reinitiate the chat with a question that begins with the word “So?” If she does, you’ve now seen three lOls and can . . .
13. Kiss close. Say, out of the blue, “Would you like to kiss me?”
If she says yes, go for it.
If she says maybe say “Let’s find out.”
If she says no, say “I didn’t say you could. I just looked like you had something on your mind.”
If the setting or circumstances aren’t conducive to physical intimacy, then give yourself a time constraint by saying, “I have to go, but we should continue this.” Then get her number and leave.
If you want a pick up a woman it’s reported to work well.
If you think Pick Up Artists are the scum of the earth, then now you know what to look out for so you don’t get caught.
However, even Dr Phil admitted that many simply use these icebreaking techniques to present well with women.
You can check out the dr Phil video here.
Afterall, girls can spemnd an hour or more pretty-ng themselves up beforegoingout, so why can’t guys spice up their conversation to entertain women?
