“The Way of the Tao is to unify the spirit. Do this by gathering your vital energy, calming your mind, and harmonizing your will.The body should be regulated neither too hot nor too cold, neither hungry nor overfed. In this way sex is always leisurely and relaxed.”
—Woman’s advice to the Yellow Emperor
“Taoists are concerned with keeping the overall flow of life energy in balance and this demands growing awareness of the subtle events that control your life” wrote Mantak Chia in Taoists Secrets of Love – Cultivating Male Sexual Energy.
As discussed in Sacred Sexuality Empowering Men “the sexual practices used in Taoist, Tantric, Arabian and Japanese traditions both prolong sexual pleasure and raise it ecstasy” by withholding ejaculation, using relaxing breathing.
What you do before and after sex can also neutralize chi and effect your health.
Keeping Mind and Body Balanced
Sexual energies accumulate 48 hours before lovemaking. A couple who are serene can enjoy relaxed sexual intimacy and a feel deep meditative union. As a man prepares his chi flow will be calm and not disturb his woman’s emotional antenna before and even after intercourse.
As Taoist lovemaking can be very long, Taoist philosophy emphasizes preparation and foreplay so that the woman to experience warmth and feeling.
Turn the home into a temple of your love. Soft candles, pillows, sweet incense, romantic relaxing music and lots of gentle, genuine open she will open her to your embrace, connect both physically and spiritually and experience a union of souls.
Pillows may add to comfort, particularly for a woman who may experience reduced leg circulation under a partner.
During, physical and emotional extremes the energy required to make love may imbalance your system.So avoid hard physical exertion a few hours before and after sex.
However, passive and restful lovemaking can be physically healing. If your lover is not well then help heal her by being the active partner. If a person is weakened physically, he should take the passive role.
Don’t eat a banquet after tasting the desert of love because digestion will compete for your energy, hinder semen production during intercourse and harm your digestion and spleen. Eat only light, warm sweet foods, or a herbal tea, to keep chi balanced and avoid cold foods.
After love making, allow your system to be refreshed and let your body absorb the energy of your passion. Water will draw it away, so avoid bathing immediately after.
As relaxed Taoist sex promotes shared soul intimacy, this is hindered by extreme emotional states and intoxication. Taoist techniques you will find a far greater pleasure than alcoholic relaxation.
Relaxation is helped by urinating twenty minutes before intercourse and may reduce kidney stress. Waiting a little while afterwards may encourage regular sexual rhythm and chi balance. However, during menstruation then urination may prevent blood drying in the penis urethra.
Being truly one
The goal of Taoist lovemaking is to share the power of the male and female, yin and yang, energy centers. to be truly intimate you must live in the present so as to fully cultivate a soul level connection with your lover. Taoist sex teaches you to “sharpen your weapon” and use your internal energy to rouse you to passion.
Firm and gentle lovemaking is encouraged. This will help a beginner to withhold ejaculation.
“As you master the process of sexual transformation, you can play with more passionate variations” said Chia.
However, sex toys are discouraged unless you have sexual dysfunction as are sexual fantasies.Taoist texts describe unhappy men who can never truly love a woman because ghosts fill them with intense erotic dreams.
The yin and yang energies moving through your entire body are not locked in your head desiring a fantasy. To let them flow you must truly experience your own and your lovers body and soul.
With exercise, yoga and Microcosmic Orbit meditation, you can enjoy profound experience that the world, and our partner, are already perfect.
Finally, if you getting bored, stop. Never use sex to mask your anger, fears or hurts. If you are losing connection then stop and relax, rebuild your energies and reconnect.
“Treat love-making like it was a feast and do it only when you are both feeling extremely healthy and passionate” said Chia.
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