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“When a women has sex on a first date she will feel he will view her like a slut.” Pardon the language, the words are not mine. They belong to seduction teacher David Shade.
She does not expect him to call back. If he does she probably won’t answer the call, he says.
A man must make the conscious decision that to have a woman want to have sex with him on the first date is an insult because she does not view him as worth knowing after the fling.
Yet guys often chase one night flings because they have to prove themselves. Instead they give all the power to the woman.
A man must be able to command respect and have a woman take him seriously if she is to respond to him sexually.
But women like bad boys don’t they?
Yes – and this is where a man must have a belief about men, women and his attractiveness, knowledge of what to do and a sense of dominance – of being an Alpha Male.
Women are highly sexual beings, says Shade, they are also very social.
At work, in public, in the home, they demand respect and can be dominating in the cut and thrust of life. In public, social rules matter to women.
In the bedroom they want to forget social approval. Be a nice guy in public and a bad boy in bed.
Shade even suggests that secretive sexual behavior in public – as long as it does not break the social rules of the situation as seen by others can be very alluring to women.
This is where shade, a hypnotist, teaches men to leverage sexuality with women while not sleeping with them on the first date.
He teaches men to be able to make a date sexually charged without getting physical. The woman will fantasize about the man, he says, and on the next date this sexuality is leveraged even more, and again on a third date.
Women’s sexuality is entirely mental, he says.
Leverage the art of mental seduction and when the night comes you will both be highly aroused and still have not crossed her social boundaries.
It may not be politically correct. However, according to shade, the most dominant business woman will want to be sexually submissive in bed.
Outside of the bedroom, treat her with the utmost of respect. Then, in the context of heightened sexuality, says Shade, she will allow you to treat her as sex object, or use dirty talk.
According to Shade, a woman wants to be ‘slutty’ but not feel like a slut. In other words, she wants to be a sexual animal but wants you the man to give her permission. That way she does not contravene her social conditioning.
He claims it is in women’s DNA to prefer a dominant Alpha Male.
This is why being a bad boy and a nice guy works in different specific situations.
David Shade was himself a nice guy, was divorced and then swung into being a full Bad Boy. However, he noticed that while it attracted women – and sex – it was wearing on the women.
He also realized that many of the bad boy types has seen their fathers abuse their women, were chasing one night stands with women who were effectively their whore, but were unable to integrate this relationship with the mother figure woman who was there for procreation.
They were also paranoid that they would lose a girl to other bad boys the same way they had stolen women from men.
To be true to himself, David Shade realized you could be socially nice but also satisfy the animal yearnings that reside in every woman.
But then as a Renegade Sex Expert, David Shade has no qualms to give The Politically Incorrect Answers
About Women & Sexuality and still let you have real relationship with a woman .
In the bedroom social rules do not apply they want to forget social approval. Be a nice guy in public and a bad boy in bed.
