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Alma Tadema - A Coign of Vantage

A Coign of Vantage - Lawrence Alma-Tadema (1836 - 1912)

The Great Lover

I have been so great a lover: filled my days

So proudly with the splendour of Love’s praise,

The pain, the calm, and the astonishment,

Desire illimitable, and silent content,

And all dear names men use, to cheat despair,

For the perplexed and viewless streams that bear

Our hearts at random down the dark of life.

Now, ere the unthinking silence on that strife

Steals down, I would cheat drowsy Death so far,

My night shall be remembered for a star

That outshone all the suns of all men’s days.

Shall I not crown them with immortal praise

Whom I have loved, who have given me, dared with me

High secrets, and in darkness knelt to see

The inenarrable godhead of delight?

Love is a flame; we have beaconed the world’s night.

A city: and we have built it, these and I.

An emperor: we have taught the world to die.

So, for their sakes I loved, ere I go hence,

And the high cause of Love’s magnificence,

And to keep loyalties young, I’ll write those names

Golden for ever, eagles, crying flames,

And set them as a banner, that men may know,

To dare the generations, burn, and blow

Out on the wind of Time, shining and streaming…

These I have loved:

White plates and cups, clean-gleaming,

Ringed with blue lines; and feathery, faery dust;

Wet roofs, beneath the lamp-light; the strong crust

Of friendly bread; and many-tasting food;

Rainbows; and the blue bitter smoke of wood;

And radiant raindrops couching in cool flowers;

And flowers themselves, that sway through sunny hours,

Dreaming of moths that drink them under the moon;

Then, the cool kindliness of sheets, that soon

Smooth away trouble; and the rough male kiss

Of blankets; grainy wood; live hair that is

Shining and free; blue-massing clouds; the keen

Unpassioned beauty of a great machine;

The benison of hot water; furs to touch;

The good smell of old clothes; and other such

The comfortable smell of friendly fingers,

Hair’s fragrance, and the musty reek that lingers

About dead leaves and last year’s ferns…

Dear names,

And thousand other throng to me! Royal flames;

Sweet water’s dimpling laugh from tap or spring;

Holes in the groud; and voices that do sing;

Voices in laughter, too; and body’s pain,

Soon turned to peace; and the deep-panting train;

Firm sands; the little dulling edge of foam

That browns and dwindles as the wave goes home;

And washen stones, gay for an hour; the cold

Graveness of iron; moist black earthen mould;

Sleep; and high places; footprints in the dew;

And oaks; and brown horse-chestnuts, glossy-new;

And new-peeled sticks; and shining pools on grass;

All these have been my loves. And these shall pass,

Whatever passes not, in the great hour,

Nor all my passion, all my prayers, have power

To hold them with me through the gate of Death.

They’ll play deserter, turn with the traitor breath,

Break the high bond we made, and sell Love’s trust

And sacramented covenant to the dust.

- Oh, never a doubt but, somewhere, I shall wake,

And give what’s left of love again, and make

New friends, now strangers…

But the best I’ve known

Stays here, and changes, breaks, grows old, is blown

About the winds of the world, and fades from brains

Of living men, and dies.

Nothing remains.

O dear my loves, O faithless, once again

This one last gift I give: that after men

Shall know, and later lovers, far-removed,

Praise you, “All these were lovely”; say “He loved”.


- Rupert Brooke

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Pixie Dust copy No Platonic Love

Tell me no more of minds embracing minds,
And hearts exchang’d for hearts;
That spirits spirits meet, as winds do winds,
And mix their subt’lest parts;
That two unbodied essences may kiss,
And then like angels, twist and feel one Bliss.

I was that silly thing that once was wrought
To practise this thin love;
I climb’d from sex to soul, from soul to thought;
But thinking there to move,
Headlong I rolled from thought to soul, and then
From soul I lighted at the sex again.

As some strict down-looked men pretend to fast,
Who yet in closets eat;
So lovers who profess they spririts taste,
Feed yet on grosser meat;
I know they boast they souls to souls convey,
Howe’r they meet, the body is the way.

Come, I will undeceive thee, they that tread
Those vain aerial ways
Are like young heirs and alchemists misled
To waste their wealth and days,
For searching thus to be for ever rich,
They only find a med’cine for the itch.

- William Cartwright

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Howard David Johnson - Moon Goddess - Diana

Howard David Johnson - Moon Goddess - Diana

To think
I must be alone:
To love
We must be together.

To think I love you
When I’m alone
More than I think of you
When we’re together.

I cannot think
Without loving
Or love
Without thinking.

Alone I love
To think of us together:
Together I think
I’d love to be alone.

- Richard Murphy

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10 agression sexuelle The Effect of Sexual Abuse

Half of sexual abuse survivors wait up to five years before disclosing they were victimized, reports as study published in The Canadian Journal of Psychiatry.

The collaborative study Université de Montréal, the Universite du Quebec a Montreal and the Universite de Sherbrooke surveyed 800 Quebec men and women and found 25 percent of respondents never divulged being sexually abused as children.

“The number of victims who never reveal their secret or who wait many years to do so is very high,” says co-author psychology professor  Mireille Cyr,  of the Université de Montréal. ”

“This is regrettable because the longer they wait to reveal the abuse, the harder and more enduring the consequences will be.”

The research team found that 16 percent of women remain quiet about abuse, while 34 percent of men never share their secret.

The investigation found that 22 percent of women and 10 percent of men reported beings survivors of abuse, which ranged from molestation to rape. This is similar to previous research  findings..

Anxiety, depression, troubles concentrating and irritability are psychological distress symptoms experienced by abuse victims. Some  victims suffer from post-traumatic stress disorder, others relive the abuse psychologically while others have dulled emotions or become hyper-vigilant.

The data suggests that victims are more likely to denounce their abuser when he or she is a stranger. However, in 85 percent of cases for female victims and 89 percent for male victims, serious abuse such as rape is committed by friends or family members.

In a separate study from the University of California, San Diego’s Anxiety and Traumatic Stress Disorders Program childhood sexual abuse may affect health even in old age.

In women, early sexual assault appeared to increase the risk of arthritis and, unexpectedly,  breast cancer, with multiple abuse episodes increasing disease risk by two- to three-fold compared with a single episode. In men, early sexual assault appeared to increase the risk of thyroid disease.

The researchers did not find the associations between sexual abuse and obesity or headaches observed in other studies. Meanwhile a study from Queensland Australia found that childhood sexual abuse and symptoms of sexual dysfunction in adult men and women.

A fourth study correlated the likelihood of young victims to become adult victims of sexual or physical abuse found female survivors of childhood sexual abuse are three to four times likely to be victims of physical or sexual abuse as adults.

The study was conducted by Professor Isabelle Daigneault, of the Université de Montréal Department of Psychology.

Published in The International Journal of Child Abuse & Neglect, she examined 9,170 women and 7,823 men throughout Canada

“It’s the first time that we combine data on sexual abuse during childhood and eventual relationship problems,” says Daigneault.

Male survivors of childhood sexual abuse are three times more likely to be victims of physical abuse as men. However, too few men reported sexual abuse as adults to establish a statistically significant correlation.

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