
Ecstasy
Cover mine eyes, O my Love!
Mine eyes that are weary of bliss
As of light that is poignant and strong
O silence my lips with a kiss,
My lips that are weary of song!
Shelter my soul, O my love!
My soul is bent low with the pain
And the burden of love, like the grace
Of a flower that is smitten with rain:
O shelter my soul from thy face!
- Sarojini Naidu
from The Golden Threshold
Image: Indian Romance Dream by ~yasha-chan
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If you want to succeed in love, how can you be sure you know what a pertner wants in you? Do you even know what you want yourself?
What if you think you know what your lover wants and then you find you have totally different vales?
Why does your lovers habits, push all your buttons? When you know your values you can doirect your own ship. You know which way to set your sails and catch the winds of change foy your own success.
Eighty percent of your success or failure depends on meeting others peoples iner core values. Being able to know and meet people’s needs leads to the greatest success. Not technical skill.

“Sometimes we seducers don’t want the object of our seduction to feel good — we want them to feel nervous, or worried, or jealous, or confused, or frustrated. But the difference is that we only arouse those feelings in order to make the relief that comes afterward that much more powerful” wrote Arden.

Few, if any, of the world’s problems can be solved with a mere twenty minutes of attention, and yet here, in the complex sociopolitical landscape of the bedroom, we have an opportunity to create bilateral satisfaction. When put that way, in the context of sexual peace and equality, is twenty minutes of focused attention, applied appropriately, really too much to ask, especially if it can save your sex life?