You want to drive up her curiosity, get her to laugh and have fun around you.

The truth is, she will probably screen her calls, she may check her voice mail, but she WILL read her messages.

So how can use text message to get that girl?

1. All ways call her by a nick name – Doll Face,  Honey, don’t be formal
2. DON’T use abbreviations. Use the spell checker and appear articulate. Be a cut above the rest.
3. Use emoticons to highlight when you are teasing or using banter. Nothing flash, The smiley (a colon  : and right bracket ) ) is all you need.
4. Use complete sensory descriptions.

If she asks ‘how ru?” don’t reply ‘great’ – That’s lame.

Try “I’m at the Waldorf. Having a great time. You should be here.”

5. Save your text as a draft. Hold off for a minute and then reread it. You will be surprised how often a rushed reply sounds needy. Sometimes changing or removing one word is all that is needed. Then send it.
6. Show some class – No swearing.
7. Use punctuation to create emphasis. There is no natural emphasis in messaging, you have to create your own to make your point stand out.
8. Be the last person to write in a messaging exchange.  End a post with a question to get her to reply. Or if you use a statement fade it out and let her wonder where you got too.
9. Use text messaging sparingly.

A Voice call or face to face is better. However, most girls screen their calls.

This is where you use technology to your advantage. Send a text. If she replies, you know she is near her phone, so ring her.

If she doesnt pick up, you know she is playing games.

Move on to someone else.